You Are a Treasure

Even when it doesn’t feel like it.

When I was a kid, my grandparents would visit us often on the weekends, and I was really lucky to have a close relationship with them. My grandpa was one of the most compassionate, kind people I’ve ever met. He and my grandma were both super supportive of me as I battled unexplained headaches and neck pain, and they were never faltering pillars of support for me in the early days of being a chronically ill kid. In 2015, my grandpa passed away unexpectedly, and grieving him has been an ever-challenging process that I still don’t always have the words for.

I hold my grandpa’s words and memories close to my heart always. But in particular, one of the things my grandpa said often to me was, “I treasure you.” Those words came back to me recently when we were playing music for the kids we take care of, and a song called “You Are a Treasure” came on. My negative self-image of myself has been an ongoing battle of mine, so that song really struck a chord with me. It brought me back to all the times my grandpa said it to me, even when I didn’t believe it myself. The constant reminder that I was worthy beyond measure was one I needed growing up, especially with chronic pain. I think it’s something we all need to hear from time to time, especially when we face ableism, medical gaslighting, or viewpoints that make us feel less than worthy.

When I was putting together this sticker set, I knew those words would be a beautiful reminder to include. In honor of my Grandpa Bob, but also to remind you of the truth that is so often forgotten — you are a treasure. You are irreplaceable, and there is no one else like you. Your value is immeasurable. No matter what.